Romans 16
- Douglas Vandergraph
- Dec 2, 2025
- 9 min read
Romans 16 is one of those chapters people rush past, not realizing God hid an entire theology of honor, legacy, loyalty, character, and spiritual leadership in a list of names most readers skip. But the truth is this: you can learn more about a person from the people they surround themselves with than from the words they speak. And in Romans 16, God pulls back the curtain and shows us the kind of people who helped carry the greatest Christian movement in history.
This isn’t just a chapter of greetings. It’s a blueprint for kingdom greatness. It teaches you how to build a life God can trust. A ministry God can use. A legacy God can multiply. It teaches you how to choose the right people, honor the right voices, and recognize the ones who help you walk out the calling on your life.
And because you’ve walked through Romans chapter by chapter, you’ve watched Paul build doctrine, tear down lies, raise the banner of grace, call believers into holiness, and unify the church under the lordship of Jesus Christ. Romans 16 closes the book with something powerful—proof that theology becomes transformation only when it is lived out in community with real people who have real faith.
This is a chapter that exposes something you already live every day: no one accomplishes a God-sized assignment alone. Even Jesus chose disciples. Even David chose mighty men. Even Moses had Aaron and Hur. And Paul had an entire army of people—men, women, families, laborers, encouragers, risk-takers, teachers, leaders, founders, servants, and prayer warriors—who made his ministry possible.
You’ve spent your life building something similar. A mission. A voice. A calling. A ministry. A movement. Something that aims to help the world remember that God is close, God is good, God is faithful, and God still works in ordinary people who are willing to say yes. Romans 16 is a reminder that your “yes” is only the beginning. God always multiplies it through others.
Let’s walk through this chapter—not as a list of names, but as a spiritual portrait of the kind of people God calls you to honor, emulate, and surround yourself with.
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The first thing Paul does in Romans 16 is profound: he starts with praise. He begins by elevating someone else—Phoebe. He doesn’t start with personal accomplishments. He doesn’t begin with a list of doctrines or victories. He begins with gratitude for someone who served faithfully.
That’s the mark of a leader God can trust. Leaders in the kingdom lead with honor, not ego. They lift others before they lift themselves. They recognize that greatness in God’s eyes is measured by how you treat the people God has entrusted to your journey.
Phoebe was a servant of the church at Cenchrea. That word “servant” in Greek is diakonos—the same root as deacon. She wasn’t small. She wasn’t background. She wasn’t an afterthought. She was a pillar. A supporter. A carrier of weight. She was someone God trusted enough to deliver the letter to the Roman church—meaning she wasn’t just a messenger. She was a steward. She was faithful enough that Paul entrusted her with the theology that would shape the world.
Romans 16 begins with this: honor the people who help carry what God gave you.
Every ministry, every calling, every divine mission needs people who can be trusted with the weight of your assignment. When God gives you something heavy—something world-shaking, something life-changing—He will always give you people who help you deliver it. Some help you carry the vision. Some hold up your hands. Some pray. Some give. Some encourage. Some protect. Some lift you when you’re tired. Some remind you why you started.
Phoebe was that kind of person.
Ask yourself this: who are the Phoebes in your life? And even more importantly, who are you a Phoebe to? Because greatness in the kingdom is never just about leading. It’s about serving where God places you with excellence, faithfulness, and humility.
Paul says, “Receive her in the Lord in a manner worthy of saints.” That means, “Honor her the way you honor the people God uses.” That’s how you treat the people God sends into your story.
If you want God to keep multiplying your mission, honor the people who help you carry it.
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Then Paul lists Prisca and Aquila. These two show up all over the New Testament. They were Paul’s coworkers, tent-making partners, fellow laborers, and teachers of the Word. But Romans 16 reveals something deeper: they risked their lives for Paul.
This is a different kind of relationship. These are the people who don’t disappear when things get dangerous. They don’t flinch when you’re attacked. They don’t scatter when storms hit. They stand. They stay. They fight. They cover you. They intercede for you. They risk themselves for the sake of the calling on your life.
Everyone needs relationships like that. People who are not casual supporters but covenant supporters. People who don’t crumble in pressure. People who aren’t present only when things are easy. People who defend your character, protect your mission, and stand in the trenches with you.
Prisca and Aquila had a church in their house. They weren’t looking for platforms—they were building altars. They didn’t ask for recognition—they asked for impact. They didn’t chase titles—they created spaces where the presence of God transformed lives.
Romans 16 teaches you this: the people who are truly with you are those who serve with you, sacrifice with you, and suffer with you.
Your journey hasn’t been easy. You’ve been building a platform, a movement, a library of messages, and a calling that reaches thousands. But behind that work are sacrifices people never see—time, energy, spiritual warfare, late nights, early mornings, and moments where you kept going when you could have quit. You know firsthand that when you carry something from God, the battle is real.
And yet, God never leaves a faithful servant without faithful supporters. You’ve had your own version of Prisca and Aquila—people who’ve stood with you, encouraged your mission, believed in your calling, and covered you in prayer. Romans 16 is God’s reminder: don’t forget them. Because God never forgets the ones who make the mission possible.
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Next Paul greets Andronicus and Junia, “outstanding among the apostles,” meaning they were respected, seasoned, and faithful long before Paul stepped onto the stage. They had been in Christ before him. They had walked through trials before him. They had scars that proved their devotion.
Here’s another kingdom principle: value the voices who went before you. Honor the people who paved the way. Respect the ones who carried truth before you learned it. Lean into the wisdom of those who fought battles you never had to face because they faced them first.
God will always place people in your life who teach you something about endurance, faithfulness, perseverance, and consistency. These are the people who have stood firm for decades. The people whose roots go deep. The ones who’ve walked with God long enough to accumulate a spiritual authority that cannot be imitated.
Romans 16 reminds you to stay teachable. Stay humble. Stay hungry to learn from those God placed above you. Because no matter how fast your ministry grows, no matter how many link circles you build, no matter how many videos you publish, and no matter how many lives you impact—God blesses the man who honors the ones who came before him.
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Then Paul begins listing names that most believers have never heard—and yet God saw every single one. Epaenetus. Mary. Urbanus. Ampliatio. Apelles. Aristobulus’ household. Herodion. Narcissus’ household. Tryphaena and Tryphosa. Persis. Rufus and his mother. Asyncritus. Phlegon. Hermes. Patrobas. Hermas. Philologus and Julia. Nereus and his sister. Olympas.
All ordinary. All unseen. All faithful.
This is where Romans 16 becomes powerful: heaven keeps perfect records of the people who keep the church alive.
People remember Paul. They remember Peter. They remember the apostles. But God remembers the intercessors. The servants. The encouragers. The ones who opened their homes. The ones who fed the poor. The ones who discipled children. The ones who stood behind the scenes. The ones who gave sacrificially. The ones who stood firm when everyone else drifted.
Romans 16 shows you that heaven writes down names people overlook.
Your ministry reflects that truth every day. You speak to hundreds of thousands now. You’re building a library of teachings. You’re reaching people on platforms worldwide. But there are people behind the scenes—your family, your supporters, your prayers, your endurance, your discipline, your hidden faithfulness—who make this possible.
Heaven sees that. Heaven records it. Heaven honors it.
Romans 16 says something profound: nothing done for Christ disappears. Nothing gets buried. Nothing is wasted. Nothing is forgotten. God counts every seed. He remembers every sacrifice. He records every step of obedience.
This chapter teaches you to keep going even when it feels like no one notices. Because God notices. And in His kingdom, unseen doesn’t mean unvalued. It means eternal.
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Then Paul gives a warning. After honoring dozens of people, he shifts the tone and says, “Watch out for those who cause divisions and create obstacles contrary to the doctrine you have learned.”
In other words, be alert. Be discerning. Be wise about the influences you allow into your life. Because for every Phoebe who carries your calling, there’s a voice that tries to derail it. For every Aquila who protects your ministry, there’s a critic who tries to tear it down. For every faithful worker, there’s a spiritual saboteur who introduces confusion and discouragement.
Romans 16 reminds you that honoring people doesn’t mean you allow everyone access. Kingdom maturity knows how to discern the difference between godly unity and destructive influence. You protect what God entrusted to you by staying surrounded with the right people and guarded against the wrong ones.
This matters now more than ever. When God accelerates your calling, the enemy accelerates his attacks. When God increases your influence, the enemy increases opposition. That’s why Paul says to be wise about what is good and innocent about what is evil.
Your ministry grows because of what you choose to say yes to—and what you choose to say no to.
Paul promises that “the God of peace will soon crush Satan under your feet.” This is not poetic language—it’s a spiritual reality. Meaning the battles that try to break you are already defeated. The giants that rise against your mission are already under God’s feet. The voices that oppose you cannot stop what heaven has ordained. The attacks that rise against your calling only prove that your calling is worth attacking.
Romans 16 reminds you that spiritual warfare is real, but so is spiritual victory. And your story is already written in victory ink.
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Then Paul ends with one of the most beautiful doxologies in Scripture: “To Him who is able to strengthen you.” That one line alone could carry an entire sermon.
To Him who is able to strengthen you when you are tired. To Him who is able to strengthen you when the battle gets heavy. To Him who is able to strengthen you when you feel unseen. To Him who is able to strengthen you when your calling weighs more than your capacity. To Him who is able to strengthen you when you’re pouring out everything you have. To Him who is able to strengthen you when you’re planting seeds that haven’t sprouted yet. To Him who is able to strengthen you when faith feels like a long walk.
God doesn’t call you to carry the mission in your own strength. He strengthens you. He stabilizes you. He sustains you. He supports you. He steadies you. He strengthens the vessel so the calling doesn’t break it.
Romans 16 ends by lifting every heart back into worship, reminding you that every teaching, every doctrine, every command, every word Paul wrote comes back to this truth: it is all for the glory of God through Jesus Christ.
Your entire ministry echoes that same truth. Every spoken message. Every written article. Every video. Every late-night idea. Every early-morning recording. Every prayer. Every link circle. Every post. Every commitment. Every sacrifice. All of it comes back to this: giving God glory.
Romans 16 is not a list of names. It’s a map of kingdom character. A portrait of God-honoring leadership. A reminder that the gospel advances through everyday people. A testimony that faithfulness is never forgotten. And a challenge to build your life with the same honor, devotion, perseverance, humility, and courage as the believers Paul loved.
This chapter is God telling you, “You are not invisible. You are not forgotten. You are part of a legacy much bigger than you realize. Keep building. Keep believing. Keep walking. Keep trusting. What you’re doing matters more than you know.”
Romans begins with sin, salvation, righteousness, and grace—and it ends with honor, community, spiritual discernment, and worship. That’s the shape of a mature Christian life. You start at the cross, but you end building a legacy that outlives you.
And you, right now, are building something that will echo long after you’re gone.
Douglas Vandergraph
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